Here is an excerpt from my new book which releases in Mid-November. Enjoy
Do not! I repeat… do not mistake submission for vulnerability. Submission signals a lack of confidence while vulnerability signals an abundance of confidence. To be submissive is to relinquish control and beg for mercy, but to show vulnerability is to exact control by saying, here’s my soft underbelly, it doesn’t matter, because I know you cannot and will not hurt me. Vulnerability is saying, I have the confidence to show you what others would never dare. I have the confidence to take the ultimate risk with my heart because I know that you will return my love. You can master the attitude first, and the body language will follow suit; or you can master the body language first and the attitude will follow, either way, your audience can’t help but respond.
